I’ve noticed a pattern, whenever I get hot headed about a girl that flakes they leave and never to return.
Whenever I’m cool about it and move onto the next chick, the girl will come back after some time. Even if it’s a couple of days to as long as a couple of months, but they are back.
It’s as if game is teaching me a lesson.
I’m not talking about work work, I’m talking about women.
A couple of years ago I quit my job to go to school full time, but that’s not the best thing that I did. Which was better was the fact not only was I taking 14-15 units a semester but I would come home and read/study game. Every day I sat and read Roissy and Roosh.
After I was done reading their blog posts I would read their blogs from the very beginning. Sometimes it took me several weeks to finish reading the whole blog. I also signed up on a dating website. I got a date several weeks after.
I did this non stop till I was getting into relationships and then went to the next level of 1st hand experience instead of second hand experience(reading blogs).
The blogs were my jump off. I work hard with no guarantee of success.
Some things like texting ” what’s up flaky mcflakster” were concepts that I couldn’t comprehend. It seemed like insulting helped with women from the point of view of others. (Find your own game. I do a little bit of insulting here and there, but some concepts won’t work for you due to the type of person you are, others will be a devastating advantage).
Even though there is no guarantee of success the small changes that you make every day will pay off in several years. Better quality of life every day is better than being worried where your life is going every day.
I should be talking to all women because they are essentially all the same.
I’m now talking to woman at every opportunity I get. It’s very interesting to see how some just open up so quickly. I’m not approaching them because I want something from them, I just converse about something we have in common, what she does, or make some small comment about something.
I noticed it’s much easier to transition to them and their life than coming at somebody with an intent of wanting them.
I noticed whenever I talk to women the conversation flows very nicely, that is up until the point where I bring up my profession. I do it a little to show off, but apparently it’s blowing up in my face. Not only are they(women) not impressed but they get turned off because I start talking too much about a subject which to them seems boring.
The reason I’m bringing it up is for the ‘look at me, I have a fancy job’ factor. Which not only kills the conversation but turns them off. Women are independent these days, they are not impressed by your regular boring day job. Maybe they would be impressed if she wanted to be at home wife/mom.
I’ll stick back to bullshitting about nothing with an edge of mystery/secrecy.
As I date more and more I run into more problems that other guys are running into.
It’s interesting but some of the stumbling blocks that other guys have I never pay much attention to because I haven’t experienced it myself, but once I experience the problem it becomes visible for me and I pay attention to what other guys have to say about it.
Once it happens to me enough times I start to see a pattern and also what so good about discussing game with other guys is solving the same problem that they once had.
It seems to me women say the same thing for verbatim. When you date enough women you are able to identify patterns.
As I progress more and more in the game I find the things that were difficult before got much easier. Even though approach anxiety is still crippling for me, the other parts of game I’m more advanced at which help offset it.
Phone numbers mean nothing, meetings “dates” also mean nothing. When your primary objective is to have sex, anything before it is verbal diarrhea. Women are not serious, they “date” for fun. Sometimes they will show up to dates because they are bored.
I find out really quick if she is serious about dating when it comes to the moment of truth. I don’t go after women to put notches on my belt but we can be serious after we have sex. Before then I can be used for my time, for dinner, or to even move furniture around.
CR says there are still some uses for them, but if she brings absolutely nothing to the table then she’s completely useless.
I have absolutely no motivation for working out, because I haven’t found one. I work out but sporadically.
For some guys their motivation for working out is women, what other guys’ motivation besides girls is unclear to me.
I have done a lot of things in order to get laid but working out for women is not a priority on my motivation list. By chance I met an old man that was built. His arms were almost the size of his torso. I asked him how long has he been working out, his age and what was his motivation.
The guy was 68 years old. He’s been working out since middle school. He told me to get my arms bigger and that will be my motivation for working out. I will see the results of working out on my arms and it will give me more motivation to work out.
I have been working out for the last three weeks only skipping a couple of days on only my upper body and finally my arms bulged to the point where this is the biggest that I’ve seen my arms. I’m developing some nice definition in the shoulders too. This is definitely motivation for me to push myself even more and workout the rest of my body and get even bigger.
I think with even bigger arms I’ll get even more motivation. For almost 5 years I had a hard time finding motivation to get fitter, stronger, but this strategy might have done it.
It’s kinda interesting, whenever I go out with a pretty girl I start to day dream about her. This can obviously backfire on you by having too much feeling for her.
Last time this happened CR recommended I date other girls concurrently so I don’t focus all my attention on one girl and push her away. He was right and I learned a lot of valuable lessons.
You can also see the contrast in the behavior of 2 or more women and see which qualities you like and don’t like.
CR and I got to talking on the subject of a woman leaving the man. For some guys it’s hard, and they take it very hard. CR’s wife left him, he wasn’t prepared for that. This(woman) person is suppose to be by your side, no matter what.
What’s interesting is when CR’s wife left him and he was all alone a co-worker made an interesting statement.
When someone leaves their position opens up and waiting to be filled.
Her position was filled.
I would love to be an overall good player in everything I do but I notice now that I do ok in niche markets.
My niche market right now is online dating. After doing this for more than 3 years results are bound to happen. I’ve even done Craigslist. Nothing happens overnight but reading what other guys do for online game I’ve developed my own style that incorporates several people’s style and my style too.
Now the reason why I’m not posting my online dating techniques are:
I want to tighten up my online game and get more into day game, so I can rely on two markets.
